陶冶: to fire pots and smelt metal, to educate...
缓解: to bring relief, to alleviate (a crisis), to dull (a pain)...
留念: to keep as a souvenir, to recall fondly...
虐待: to mistreat, to maltreat, to abuse, mistreatment, maltreatment...
顾问: adviser, consultant...
常人: ordinary person...
正如: just as, precisely as...
能不能: can or not, could you? can you?...
拖欠: in arrears, behind in payments, to default on one's debts...
谎言: lie...